Using the Trust™ Model
So much of the focus on business relationships is on
conflict resolution. Yet research by Dr John Gottman in Seattle on
personal relationships has demonstrated the key to success is not how you
handle disagreements, but how you are with each other at other times.
The challenge in business, as identified in Daniel
Goleman's mould-breaking book 'Emotional Intelligence', is how to 'manage
with heart', particularly when surrounded by a corporate culture that looks
askance at such attitudes.
But what's demanded of leaders and managers is changing:
Yesterday's leader was a decision maker and resource
allocator who asked how to best exploit an employee's abilities for the
organization's gain. Employees were seen as tools and resources for
accomplishing the organisation's goals. Today's leader is a people
developer and relationship builder who asks, 'How can I help this person
become more valuable as an individual - as well as to all of us'.*
We don't need to like people to have effective working
relationships... but we do need to trust and respect them. The Trust
Model™ enables individuals and teams to enhance existing business
relationships or to fix broken ones.
 | Target -
what's missing, what needs to change, what's the ideal? |
 | Reward -
what's the benefit of getting it right? |
 | Understanding -
what's going on, what are the options? |
 | Sharing...
the responsibility for making it work |
 | Testing...
the new approach, and learning. |
I take individuals and teams through a structured process
that not only deals with current challenges but lays the foundations for
sustainable and effective business relationships.
Here are a few of the scenarios where the approach can be
beneficial. (See
stories
for more).
Management teams - facilitating the process of
confronting and resolving underlying relationship issues that are getting in
the way of achieving core strategic aims or breaking down long-standing
blocks.
Team v. manager - helping managers work through
leadership challenges with teams.
Key employee conflicts - sorting out distracting
conflicts between key employees.
Team building - helping new teams establish
strong shared working relationships from the outset.
* James Belasco, Foreword to Coaching for Leadership. |